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Sunday, February 2, 2025

Sons of Anarchy and Emma Goldman

 One of my favorite television shows is the Sons of Anarchy. Apart from the incredible good looking actors, and the fact that they are very talented, I just genuinely like the story line. 


I have probably watched the whole season at least three times, if not more. 


Recently, I decided to look into the author behind a quote that we see painted on a rock in one of the episodes. In Season 1 Episode 4 "Patch Over", Jax Teller (played by Charlie Hunnam) finds a rock that his dad mentioned in a manuscript. On the rock, painted in red is a quote from Emma Goldman. 


"Anarchism, then, really stands for the liberation of the human mind from the dominion of religion; the liberation of the human body from the dominion of property; liberation from the shackles and restraint of government. Anarchism stands for a social order based on the free grouping of individuals for the purpose of producing real social wealth; an order that will guarantee to every human being free access to the earth and full enjoyment of the necessities of life, according to individual desires, tastes, and inclinations." (Goldman, Emma. "Anarchism and Other Essays". 2014, 35.) [The red is what is on the rock]


This quote gives me tingles every time I hear or read it. Every. Damn. Time. 


Growing up, the idea that I had of anarchy or anarchism is not a positive one. It seems that so many people paint it in a negative light. Of course, the more that I learn about anarchism, the more I understand why most people might not want individuals to learn about it. 


In my heart of heart, I truly believe that this would be the answer to societies problems. In it's uncorrupted form it is "for the people, by the people" more so than our current system of government. A way of living where everyone had to work together to help one another. I do admit that it almost seems like an old fashioned way of thinking; way of living. Similar to the system one would see in the Old West and such.


With the advancements in technologies we have become more individualistic instead of group oriented. And truthfully, part of that I am okay with as I am an introvert. However, I do not think that is the way for a community to survive and thrive. This "everyone for themself" mentality is probably what has gotten us to the point we are at now. As much as I like to be by myself and avoid people (especially in large groups), we can't do things alone. 


Another one of my favorite shows The Walking Dead, shares that sentiment too. In Season 3 Episode 16 "Welcome to the Tombs", Daryl and Andrea (played by Norman Reedus and Laurie Holden) share a conversation and she says to him "No one can make it alone now." Daryl replies "Never could." 


And yes, it is just a television show, however, the sentiment is truly real. We can't do life without people. We can't be successful human beings without other people. We can't make life worth anything without others. And we can't leave behind a World worth anything for our children if we think that the only way to do things for everyone to think and act like us. We NEED diversity, understanding, and love. We need less government and more people doing things for people.


We have to figure something out and do it soon. At this point in time we are leaving behind a legacy that speaks of division and hatred. Our children, grandchildren, great grandchildren and on down the line deserve so much better than that. 


There will be other posts about Anarchism down the line. But these are just some of my opening thoughts. What are your opinions on the subject? Join in the conversation in the comments and let me know!!


Gonna go edit the book some more, so until next time: Remember to be kind, smile often and dance lots!!



Saturday, February 1, 2025

January 2025 in Review

 I originally intended to do this last night, but ya know what they say the road to Hell is paved with...


I don't know about anyone else, but January felt a lot longer than 31 days. In complete honesty it feels like it should be the middle of spring by now. And Lord knows I am ready for the weather of Spring. 


Although we are supposed to hit 50 degrees tomorrow and in the 60s Monday so there is that.


But I digress...


January 1st I started walking; every day, for 10 minutes. I put on my headphones and danced and sang myself around my neighborhood. Surprisingly, it did get easier as the days went on. Minus the crazy cold, but even then I got bundled up and got it done. I made it all 31 days!! 


This month I am going for 15 minutes. and I will add 5 minutes on each month. Ideally, I hope I lose some weight with this, but I am realizing that this time out in nature is very good for my mental health. So whether I drop pounds or not, the benefit is still there. 


We also, started up  homeschooling again. It is always hard to get back into a good routine, but I am utilizing more of our Jack and Link manipulatives and that is making it more fun for Kolby. We are also seeing the pay off of using Life of Fred math. For once, in five years of homeschooling, math is making him laugh and he is enjoying it. 


Obviously, I started this blog and I am getting close to being able to send my book in to be copyrighted. Super exciting and I am really loving this!


We got our eyes checked and somehow Kolby still doesn't need glasses!! Given that both Shawn and I wear glasses that is a HUGE miracle. Also, I love our eye doctor because each time we are in there, he takes the opportunity to teach Kolby something. This year it was using the images of our eye pictures that were taken and explaining the different parts, arteries, and vessels. Something that I see as a benefit from homeschooling, is that in situations like these, Kolby is very eager to learn and share the knowledge. This is where making learning a lifestyle comes in handy.


The biggest thing, in my opinion, that January brought was a new president. At the end of January he had been in office a total of 11 days and the damage done already in that less than 2-week span is monumental. I am truly worried about the next 1,375 days (the time til the next election). I struggle to see how anyone thinks that good things can come from this. Just this morning my mom sent me a headline that said there will be more protections for those accused of sexual misconduct and eliminate LGTBQ protections within schools. This is just down right appalling. I am hopeful that things will somehow improve. But I am also, very aware that this is not the time for silence anymore. Watching things being broken down has been hard. As an empath, I have had to learn to guard my spirit and energy, which sometimes means taking a step back. We will see what each month brings us with regard to this. Unfortunately, this is a situation that time will only tell us if it will get better. 


How was your January? Did you make any New Year's resolutions, goals, or intentions? Did anything super fun happen? How was the weather in your neck of the woods? Do you want to come and retrieve the weather that we have been having in good 'ole Muncie, Indiana? What are you looking forward to in 2025? Have thoughts on the first 11 days that the new president has been in office? Join in the conversation in the comments and let me know!!


Tomorrow is a day of writing so gotta turn in and try to get some decent sleep (anyone know what that actually is??? lol), so until next time Remember to be kind, smile lots and dance often!!

Monday, January 27, 2025

 January 27, 2025

8:00 pm


I am sure you are wondering what is up with the name of the blog Life After... and the address Life After Religion Book.

Alright, so the book I am writing is titled Life After Religion, but I didn't want to name a blog that because I do not want to only talk about religion. I mean I have a lot to say on the subject, but I want to talk about more things than just religion. 

However, I like the idea of Life After...like everything. What I mean is that in some situations it feels like "how can things go on?" or "how can life keep going?" Or in the case of my book, I was always taught that without Christianity you could not have a good life...but guess what you can. SURPRISE

So anyway, that is why behind the title. 


Like I said though, so many things will be discussed here. 

Some future topics:

    Menopause

    Staffy's and Pitbulls

    Discussing my favorite television shows

    Cats

    Chasing your dreams

    Sensory Processing Disorder

    Living in Indiana

    Facing your Fears

    Bucket List

    Music and Dancing

    Religion    

    My book

    Political feelings

    Anarchism

    Homeschooling

    Where do socks go in the dryer?

    Coffee vs tea...and that is just part of the list. I am sure that more things will come to mind as life goes on. 

If you have any ideas on things to discuss or that you want to hear my thoughts on let me know. 


Time for bed...I value sleep...almost as much as I value waking up to have coffee!!


Until next time: Remember to be kind, smile lots and dance often!!

    

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